accountsforme wrote:

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Shamus wrote:

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By the way, when I said like a family I meant this one ....

 

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 missing the two girlies though!

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I've got a really funny retort related to not being able to see the bottom half of the crew and the smile on Tony's face... However, (a) I can't write that as its crude and (b) it misses that the thread is changing from being fun banter to having agressive undertones.

Heated arguements are one things (we've had a few of those on the site and I think that I (and the rest of the usual suspects) have been in pretty much all of them) but calculated comments such as the above are not acceptable.

The fact is that you are new here VIP and the things that you said initially were ill conceived and based on a lack of knowledge as to the personalities on the site and how the site works.

Your last post referrring to my freinds, colleagues and fellow long term contributors to this site as girlies is extremely ill conceived although I feel that it came more from frustration that you had been backed into a corner that you could not come out of well rather than any genuine malice.

Provided that Kris and Neil are willing to let this slide I feel that no more than a warning is warranted in this instance but if this continues I am affraid that you will never get the chance to show the site what you were able to do to help the other site members.

I appreciate that this may seem unfair but my judgements have to be based upon what I feel is best for the site whilst attempting to be as fair as possible to all parties involved.

Thats what moderators do.

As I say, I appreciate that your original comments were based upon a lack of knowledge and I hope that in time you go on to become one of the key members of the site who finds themself on the other side of the fence in disputes such as this.

Regards,

Shaun.